It should come as no surprise that most seniors prefer to remain at home no matter what their care needs may be. Suddenly you, the child with a family of your own, are thrust into a caregiving position without a moments notice completely upsetting the balance of your own busy life. You are now managing doctors visits, picking up medications, emergency room visits, meals and housekeeping while trying to keep your own life sane. Is it any wonder your feeling a bit stressed? You start by seeking options to help with some of the day to day tasks, assistance to give you some breathing room. You sit down with your parents and say that you have contacted an agency that can send someone to help out around the house. Then it happens. One or both of your parents emphatically state “I don’t need any help”.

The thought of having strangers in their own home can be terrifying for seniors but it is not the only terrifying thought. They are now faced with a loss of independence and control over their own lives. I am empathetic in these situations. I  place myself in their position. How would I feel? How would I react? I would be afraid and angry, that’s how I would be. Still, this unexpected response has done nothing to ease your stress. If anything it has added to it substantially. This is an all too common occurrence between children and parents. Don’t give up. There are some things that you can do and say that will make in-home assistance an easier pill to swallow.

Begin by explaining that you understand how intrusive this is and that you will seek out the least intrusive service necessary. I have managed homecare services for many years and have found that there are many options available to assist people at home. Options which minimize the need for the invasion of strangers.  Options such as medication management systems, stove shut offs and personal emergency response systems. Simple home modifications like portable ramps grab bars and hand held shower heads. Medical equipment such as raised toilet seats, chair lifts and shower benches. The list goes on. It is not always necessary to hire caregivers right away.

When you find that hiring a caregiver is necessary approach the subject with their fears and concerns in mind. I find that the direct approach is always better. Help them identify their most important needs first and allow them to participate in problem resolution. Whenever possible minimize the initial impact by scheduling the smallest amount of time possible while still maintaining safety. Always seek out a reputable homecare agency. Often times parents refuse help from their children. Hiring a professional case manager may be the right solution. An outside party can be objective and frequently is able to help parents through the transitional period. Most of all, do not feel alone. There are a variety of options available to assist you with your caregiving needs. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.

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